Aug 20, 2013

Dirty Laundry

Airing your dirty laundry in public you say?  If I were, it would be this:

Unfortunately,  Kathleen A. Harvison is the mother of my first child and won't let me see him, talk to him or have any contact with him.  And from what I can tell, she's doing better than okay.  Definitely not in need of public assistance when she has a decent job, is married, etc.

What kind of woman, might you ask, doesn't allow a father to want to be a part of his kids life and be there for him?  Apparently her.

She's robbing him of a childhood with family that he may not be able to ever see in the coming years, let alone know who they are.  And for what?  Her own personal reasons stemming for no other reason than a failed relationship with me.  I'm sure she would "testify" upon how horrible I am for whatever reasons she could give.   And because I'm a male, the court system and the world will just say, "it's better for the child."

As the son of a divorced family where my father wasn't at home I can tell you this:  not being able to see your father is NOT better for the child.  And since, Kathleen A. Harvison has been married 3 times, it doesn't seem that there has been or ever will be a steady father figure in his life.

Even though I've never seen my son, held him, talked to him or even shared a laugh with him.  I still love him.  But the pettiness of one woman will put a scar on him that will last forever.

At some point, I'll have the money to be able to hire a lawyer in Alabama for a long drawn out custody battle.  Because that is what it will take.  I just hope he hangs in there until then.

I won't say anything bad about Kathleen but if I were to ask my daughter Sophia, whom says I'm the best daddy in the world, about Kathleen: she would likely say "She's a bad person."

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